Have you ever hovered over the “Publish” button while your stomach churned?

Does putting your content out there make you feel exposed and insecure?

Hitting “publish” means becoming vulnerable

“People will know what I’m thinking and feeling.”  

It’s true: when you create content that’s a product of your own thoughts, experiences, and knowledge, it’s a little like opening a window to your brain and heart.

Even if you don’t explicitly write about personal experiences, over time your audience will get to know how you think and how you approach the world.

That’s a product of a good writing voice, by the way, and it’s something to aim for.

But it will make you feel vulnerable in a way nothing else has.

Hitting “publish” leads to exposure

“People will see what I’m doing.”

Once you hit publish, there’s no hiding. Your work is out in the world where anyone with an accurate link can find it.

That topic you have strong opinions about? It will creep its way into your post, your video, your podcast, and before you know it, the whole world will know how you feel.

Getting nervous yet?

Hitting “publish” creates insecurity

“People will be able to comment on my work.”

Once your work is out there, people will be able to comment on it.

Even if you remove comments from your blog or don’t allow them on YouTube, you can’t stop people from weighing in on Twitter, Facebook, Google+, or any other social media platform that allows people to share a link and add a comment (which is all of them).

The threat to your personal sense of safety is real.

You will be more vulnerable, more exposed, and less secure the moment you hit publish.

And yet, millions of us do it every day.


More importantly, how can you get past that initial wave of dread and nausea and resolve to hit publish on a regular basis?

Remember: there’s safety in numbers

More than a million pieces of content are published each day. There’s safety in those numbers. Chances are, in the early days of your site, your work won’t make a dent in the grand universe that is the Internet.

And that’s a good thing.

It’s the web equivalent of anonymity. With so many other sites competing for attention, your early efforts can hum along practically unnoticed.

Sure, you can send a link to friends, family, and coworkers.

But unless you manage to create a viral sensation right out of the gate, you’ll be able to toil away in happy web obscurity while you become more comfortable with creating great content.

Later, when the recognition begins to come your way, you’ll be more experienced.

You’ll be ready.

Remember: there’s safety in a small audience

I’ve spoken to a lot of content creators in our community that have yet to really bloom, and one question I often hear sounds something like this:

“I only have an audience of 40 people. Is it worth it to keep doing this?”

My answer is always, “Yes, keep at it!”

It’s easier (and safer) to begin with a small audience and let momentum build naturally.

You’ll be interacting with real people, and that will give you invaluable insight into their needs and challenges. You can “practice” in front of a smaller crowd.

Getting your work in front of people will help inform what you should do next and how you can improve.

Just showing up is half the battle, and showing up on a regular schedule will increase the chance that you’ll produce great work over time.

Best of luck,




4 thoughts to “Do You Fear Hitting Publish?

  • RogerSmith2004

    Really, one of my major concerns is less hitting the ‘publish’ button, but more so even putting the whole thing together in general. I always find myself feeling discouraged then encouraged at the tip of a hat to progress with what content I’m working on. But I know that if I never put myself out there, then I ultimately will be more unsatisfied than if I put myself out there and fail. It just takes a lot of work and time to get me to that point. It’s something I really need to overcome. Not everything I make needs to be life changing, and I don’t need to revolutionize the way the anime community looks at things or how they consume said content. I can put out something more simple. It’s very easy for me to tell other people this, but extremely difficult for me to apply those same principles to my own work. There was a point where I kept churning out content late last year, but I ultimately was rather unsatisfied with it overall since I felt like the quality was decreasing. I’m not sure when I’ll be able to get to the point where I can balance quality with consistency, but I hope it’s soon.

    • Prattle

      It’s really nice to hear this coming from a pretty established content creator in the community. I appreciate you sharing and I’m happy you’re not only self aware of your concerns, but willing to outline your thoughts on them here.

      I really hope you achieve that nice intersection of consistency and quality soon as well.

  • LitaKino

    As always prattle this is another great write up. I’ll admit in my beginner blogger day course I was afraid to press the publish button. More of the fear noone would read or care about the content I was putting out or my thoughts. Took time but that fear no longer plagues me, I knew I had to make an effort to get to know people and I look at where I am now… with how many bloggers I know now. I’ve lost count honestly and that feeling overpowers the fear of pressing the publish button XD

    • Prattle

      Thanks Lita! I appreciate your honesty!


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